Happiness is inside you! Find IT!

You have been given all the tools necessary to be happy! Many people think they need to have things in order to be happy. It might even be losing a few pounds. You think to yourself once I reach a certain weight my life will be perfect. Once I have a certain car my life will be perfect. If I dress with certain clothes my life will be perfect. I am sorry to say this but if you are not good enough without it you will never be good enough with it. It might be easy to misinterpret my words. I am not saying you aren't good enough. I am saying if you are not happy now you won't be happy once you have it because all the superficial things one wishes for are not the magic recipe for happiness. The magic recipe for happiness is your attitude towards life and having a sense of fulfillment.

For the girls, you don't need a guy to come fix your life. You don't need a guy to be happy. I say this admitting I used to be one of those girls. Happiness is inside yourself. You need to love yourself, respect yourself. You need to be happy with YOURSELF.  I read a quote somewhere where it said," The best women don't need validation from anyone." Believe in yourself have confidence and that is how people will see you. You chose who you are. Are you going to be the insecure girl who isn't happy without people constantly reminding her she has worth? Or will you be the girl who knows her worth?

Introduction to Blog

It's written by a normal human being. I do not have anything out of the ordinary to share with you. I am average, but even being average has its struggles. This is how I cope. I spent most of my life acting like a victim. Everything that happened to me was somebody else's fault. Things out of my control would take control of my emotions and my life. I was miserable. Depressed maybe. I felt it was wrong to say I disliked my life so much because I also knew that despite my ungratefulness I was lucky. One day, I found the silver lining. Despite my normal human being struggles and my negative nature I feel today I can say I am happy. For those who like me before have never experienced a life in a state of peace and happiness it is worth it and I hope I can help at least one person appreciate the little things in life.